'Faithful friend' to many: Sunny Oduyemi is laid to rest

Sunny's funeral was held at the Romford Baptist Church at 2pm on Monday, October 4. 

Sunny's funeral was held at the Romford Baptist Church on Monday, October 4. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

The Romford community have paid their final respects to a “wonderful son, brother” and “faithful friend” at his funeral.

Sunday "Sunny" Abayomi Oduyemi suddenly passed away on September 11 this year.

He was known by “the whole of South Street” in Romford and for a time, worked in McDonald's on that road.

At 2pm on October 4, family, friends and neighbours of Sunny Oduyemi, who was 32 when he died, joined together in a service of thanksgiving of his life at the Romford Baptist Church.  

Sunny’s sister Remi, in a tribute written in the order of service, said Sunny was a “beautiful soul”, a “wonderful son, brother” and “faithful friend", and watching him grow was “an incredible privilege”. 

His sister Abi thanked him for being the “sunshine” in their lives.  

Sunny’s brother David added there are "no words” to describe Sunny's infectious positive personality.  

The service, which was opened with a speech by Reverend Ian Bunce, saw Sunny’s family, friends and co-workers share their memories.  

David

Sunny's brother David said he was grateful to find out so much about his brother which he didn't know through the many tributes and messages he was sent. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

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David expressed his gratitude for the many tributes he has read and asked people to remember his brother by the smile he put on their faces. 

Sunny’s friend Mandy Louise Kelly said: “We will always remember you; you were so gentle and kind, these memories will stay with us forever.

"What we would give to see one more of your little smiles. 

“You made so many friends and we’re so grateful to know someone like you.”  

Order of service

During the service, Sunny's sister Remi Oduyemi read out a poem named Gone But Not Forgotten. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Idris Urhum, who worked with Sunny at Hamley’s, said everyone who walked into the store “got a smile, got a laugh and got joy”.  

He added: “He was the most genuine, heartfelt, loving person I have ever met in my life.

"Just seeing him every day gave me peace and joy knowing he was there.”  

Friends of Sunny

Friends of Sunny (left to right) Leah Blackholly and Mikki Bean said he never had a 'bad word to say about anybody and was always smiling'. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Sunny's friend Corrine Ovenden described how he will be missed and recalled fond memories of his love of conversation and his ability to befriend people with ease.  

One of his neighbours, Sheila Lowery, said she “totally appreciated” all the help he gave her. 

Sheila said she was happy to help Sunny when his washing machine broke because it was an opportunity to give “something in return” for his friendship.  

Pastor Jide Fawunmi said Sunny was “humble, gentle and very caring”.  

During the exhortation, he asked attendees what impact they are making and what did they think people would say "when death calls” to emphasise Sunny's positive effect on those around him.  

Sunny was carried out to Boney M's Sunny.

Sunny was carried out to Boney M's Sunny. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Boney M's Sunny was played as his casket was carried to the hearse, which was headed for Romford Cemetery. 

A reception back at the church saw people sharing further tributes to Sunny. 

Reception

The reception was full of people who loved Sunny and were all impacted by his kind nature and infectious smile. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Corrine and her partner stood up and spoke of how much he meant to them.

She said: “There’s not a day that goes by when I don’t think about him."

Sunny

Sunny's neighbours from left to right: Zak Chapelle, Sheila Lowery, Thomas Browne, David Hataorn, Michelle Segovia (in front). - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Neighbour Zak Chapelle said Sunny was “remarkably good-natured, full of innocence and fun”.

Attendees had been asked to wear a touch of red as a nod to Sunny’s love of Arsenal, and Zak joked he considered wearing his whole Man United kit just to have a “last bit of banter" with Sunny.

Tributes

At the reception people were given the opportunity to stand at the front of the room and share their tributes to Sunny. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Another friend, Jon Brown, suggested South Street be renamed "Sunny South Street" in the well-loved man's memory. 

 Richard Adewale

Sunny's best friend since the age of five, Richard Adewale, was happy to be surrounded by others who loved Sunny just as much as he did. - Credit: Chantelle Billson

Richard Adewale spoke to share how he missed Sunny “so much” and felt a part of him was now missing.  

He added: “I am grateful that he is my true best friend who I have known since I was five years old.” 

Sunny leaves behind Caroline, 75; David, 47; and three sisters, Abi, Remi and Tope.

His 73-year-old father Abiola Oduyemi died two years ago. 

Sunny's family are asking for donations to Epilepsy Research UK, a charity they chose because they believe he died from an epileptic fit.

Visit it using https://epilepsyresearch.org.uk/give-in-memory/memorial-funds/sunny-oduyemi-memorial-fund/


Further information on fundraising events in Sunny's memory and funeral details can be found at https://www.facebook.com/sunny.oduyemi



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